Remember, it’s quite a difficult task for most men to reveal their feelings to a woman. Some may have tried it in the past only to have been placed in the category of not being manly enough.
Want to understand your significant other a whole lot better, but can’t seem to get him to open up?
Here are the few things men want but will never tell you;
1. He gets scared sometimes
They get scared and will almost never admit it. Some men retract and shut off while other become vocal and aggressive. Fears come out in different ways for different individuals. As one of the things men want you to know but will never tell you, being scared is high up on the list; definitely something worth paying attention to.
2.Men feel insecure about their bodies
Just like you have some insecurities about your body, so does he. You may not like your thighs, whereas he may have some issues with his chest.
Men are not immune to having self-esteem problems, even if they deny it. It’s seen as a weakness. So whenever one of those insecurities do come out, it’s important to support him and boost his self-esteem by telling him how handsome he looks.
3. Ask before you play with a dude’s nipples
Nipple play is like canned tuna fish: Some people can’t get enough of it, while others recoil in horror when they see someone open a Starkist can.
Like most other sexual acts, nipple play is highly variant: Some men love it, and some men hate it.
Men don’t always have all the answers. As women, we tend to look up to the men in our lives to have it all figured out at all times. However, they’re human too. They don’t have all the answers.
We’re all just trying to make it through daily challenges, trying to figure it out along the way. They may be too afraid to tell you when they don’t have the answers; especially if you’re looking to him to solve every problem.
5. Men like to cuddle
I think men do like to cuddle! They’re just worried their partner might see it as weak and them as vulnerable. I think a lot of the time a man suggests sex, what they’re really after is the physical closeness a cuddle would provide.”
How does cuddling make you feel? Pretty good, according to the guys. Other men replied that cuddling made them feel “wanted and appreciated,” while others argued it was even better than SEX.
6. They’re not all interested in anal
Yea, in all my years of having sex, what I’ve learned is that straight dudes aren’t nearly as interested in experimenting with anal sex as one would assume.
After a few research i did i found out that most dudes aren't really much interested in anal sex. Fred said during my research that “I really like vaginas. They are just fantastic. I’m not really looking for an alternative,”
Of course, there are certainly dudes who have an insatiable appetite not only for steak and lobster, but chicken and fish and cheesecake as well, and God bless them. But for most men attending the high-end steakhouse that is the range of sexual activity and experience, one entree will do just fine.
7.He cares about what you think of him
You mean something to him, so of course, he cares about what you think of him. It’s programmed into some men to come across as being immune to what others think of them.
It’s human to wonder what other humans think of you. It doesn’t mean you have low self-esteem or care too much about other’s opinions. It simply means you’re normal, and so is he. However, h may never admit that to you or anyone else.
8. He worries about being able to provide for you
Any good man involved with a woman long-term will want to be able to provide for her. If you’ve been together for a long time, married or dating, chances are it’s crossed his mind.
What men want you to know but will never tell you consists of worrying about being able to provide for his woman; especially if he doesn’t make a lot of money. Some men will admit it, some won’t. However, any good man will die trying to provide for those he loves.
9.He gets jealous if other men look at you
Yes, jealousy is nasty, but it happens. It’s a good sign if there’s a little bit of jealousy in the relationship. It means he cares about you. However, too much jealousy means there’s no trust in the relationship.
This can be detrimental to the health of your union, so it’s important to address any jealousy as it comes up. He may not tell you straight away when he’s jealous, but you’ll notice it in his behavior.
10. Men and women are both on the same planet when it comes to sex
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